Career and Leadership Success

Last week I had the honor of participating in Peter Reek’s Smart & Savvy Associates fantastic event for those wishing to build their marketing careers.

The event was masterfully choreographed with words of wisdom from 12 seasoned professionals sharing career planning “hindsights” interspersed with a dance competition, the Price is Right and Deal or No Deal.  The truly magnificent part of the evening was that each speaker had only 5-minutes (think ‘petcha kucha’ style) to share their insights (and, yes, most kept to the clock).

I was last up of the 12 and shared my “Seven Steps to Career and Leadership Success.”

I shared not only my personal experience, but more importantly, I shared the collective wisdom and hindsights of the hundreds of individuals I’ve coached to career and leadership success over the past dozen years.

Here’s a brief summary of what I said.  I decided to create a mnemonic to make the steps easy to remember. A video of the event is coming soon.  But until then, this will have to suffice.

Set a vision and goals:  The most successful folks I know set a vision (1 or 5 years out) for what is possible for their leadership and life.  They take a holistic view and determine the destination they aim to reach.  Then they put that vision up on the shelf and trust in it and themselves. Next they take an action everyday (large or small) that moves them in the right direction.

Understand self-esteem CPR:  Self-confidence is knowing the you have the skills to do something well.  Self-esteem is knowing your worth even if you are doing nothing.  Lack of self-esteem can stunt your career; no matter how talented you are.  You know you have strong self-esteem when you stay on an even keel no matter how great the wins or losses.  When you have strong belief in your worth regardless of market conditions you can practice Self-Esteem CPR:  you make Choices that move you toward your vision; you make Positivity a priority (your attitude, people and environments that surround you); and, you take measured Risks because you feel good in your own skin.

Create value security:  Job and career security has gone the way of the Brontosaurus.  It is extinct.  Yesterday’s world was about being employed.  You put in the hours and they gave you a gold watch.  Today’s world is about being employable.  You are measured on the value you bring and the results you deliver.  The more value you create, the more you make your performance shine, the more career options become available to you.

Contribute to others:  Don’t give to get.  Give to give.  Endeavor to make a meaningful impact on others.  Further this philosophy in your networking, volunteerism and day-to-day interactions.

Exercise your superpower:  The workplace rewards mastery not mediocrity.  The marketplace rewards mastery not mediocrity.  The leaders I know who have success on their terms play to their strengths.  They do not shore up weakness; and, instead build within their power alley.  In other words, if you were a superhero what would your superpower be?

Synergize your career and life:  Do not sacrifice your life for your career. Avoid burnout.  In our crazy busy world there is no such thing as balance and forget trying to achieve it.  Strive for harmony between your roles and responsibilities. In doing so, you will stop worrying about whether you are doing the right things and focus on doing the right things the right way.

Seek success not perfection: Perfection is a career killer.  When you focus on everything being a 100% right you get stuck.  You hold on too tightly and do not delegate or let things go.  You try to control everything and everyone. You miss opportunities to grow and take risks.

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 01.16.12

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January 16, 2012 – Issue #40

The Luxury of Capacity Time management is overrated. The real secret to dealing with higher workloads and demands on your time is to focus on increasing your capacity. You have high capacity when you have the inner reserves required to enable you to act in the most effective manner. See visual below.

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Rethink time management as self-management. Lack of time can be a barrier but it is only a symptom, not the cause.

This Week’s Action: Pay attention to your stress level and assess if you have the inner reserves to adequately deal with the challenges that your typical day brings you.

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© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2012. All rights reserved.

Lisa’s Monday Mentor Minute 1/3/11

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January 3, 2011 – Issue #7

The new Monday Mentor Minute is a weekly thinking point to launch your career forward. It should take you no more than 30 seconds to read, and, I hope, another 30 seconds to ponder.

Make 2011 A Stellar Year Thank you for all your support in 2010. I want to wish you a stellar 2011 and share a tip to help you jump start the year.

Forget making New Year’s resolutions. They rarely work because they are often based on “shoulds” versus the bigger picture of your life. What I’ve found does work is creating a life theme for the year ahead.

Your life theme will be your overriding intention or “big picture” focus for the upcoming months. It has an expiration date of December 31, when you’ll get a chance to re-evaluate your direction. Having a life theme is like having a mission statement for your whole life, personal and professional, updated annually. A life theme works because it takes into consideration and connects all your intentions for the year in a succinct and powerful phrase. This collection of one to five words describes what you want to accomplish in all areas of your life and cements your main priorities with intended action.

Examples of life themes are: Rebuild with Focus; Stretch; Creating Community; Transformation; Joyful Transition; and Living Large.

Monday Mentor Question What’s your 2011 life theme?

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© Lisa Martin International 2010. All rights reserved

Career-life Effectiveness Key to Talent Maximization

It’s no secret that career-life effectiveness is one of the most significant issues facing top talent and organizations today.

As the author of a bestselling work-life balance book, I’ve helped thousands of over-whelmed high-performers reduce stress, avoid burnout, maximize their effectiveness and create career-life harmony.

I strongly believe for any individual to have a truly successful and sustainable career, they must start with a solid career-life foundation. As the old saying goes: “The deeper the foundation; the taller the skyscraper.”

You may be able to advance your career to the next level, but without a strong sense of self, priorities and a career plan chances are you won’t be able to sustain it. Alternatively, if you fear moving ahead in your career most likely it’s because you feel unready or worried about work-life conflict. Slide1 Here are four steps you can take to maximize your talent and achieve a spectacular career.

1. Ensure your career-life vision is your foundation It’s difficult to determine your direction if you do not know your destination. Take the time to reflect on what career-life balance means to you. What is the ideal combination of self, family and career for you and what does that look like now, one-year and five years from now? Do you want to take a promotion or the off-ramp? Would you like a larger team or no direct reports? Do you desire the summer off or a series of mini-vacations? Write down your vision. This is your true north.

2. Articulate your values, purpose and talents No one can tell you what is important to you. You need to discover your values, purpose and talents. Your values are your moral compass – when you are expressing them you feel at your most purposeful and peaceful. Do you value beauty, adventure, growth, freedom, connection, or spirituality? Learn to name your values so they can guide your decisions.

Your purpose is why you are engaged in your career besides making money. In other words, it’s why do you do what you do. My purpose: improving lives. That’s what motivates and excites me about the work that I do. What excites you?

And finally, get clear on your unique traits and talents. If you were a superhero, what would be your superpower? Is it negotiation, communication, motivation, leadership, humor, patience or diplomacy? What comes naturally and you take for granted is often your core talent. If you are unclear, ask someone you trust to name your talents.

3. Define your career plan Do you want a career by design or by default? Now many leaders will tell you that they didn’t have a “plan” for their career; it just happened. That may be the case, but my guess is that they had more than an inkling as to where they were headed. Map out where you want to go and in what timeframe. Identify sponsors and or mentors who can help you get there. Invest in your professional development and you are on your way.

4. Align your choices and priorities Forget having it all, all of the time. That’s a one-way road to burnout. (I know I’ve been there – it’s not a pleasant trip and I don’t advise taking it.) What you can have is what matters most…and what matters most are your priorities. A sense of “balance” comes from marrying the choices you make everyday with your priorities and your ideal level of activity. Achieving harmony between your career and life looks different for each person. Know what is right for you.

It’s really quite simple (not necessarily easy), when you are clear about who you are and what you want, you will naturally begin to make the choices and take the actions that will lead you down your right path to maximize your career and contributions.

© Copyright 2010. Lisa Martin. All rights reserved.

Spectacular Moonrise

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Moonrise

I had a crazy day yesterday (didn’t we all?!) and found myself arriving home just after 7:15 pm. My son Adam was at his combo band practice (more on that in another post) and I needed to pick him up by 8:00. It was such a gorgeous dusk that I quickly changed into my sports gear to fit in a walk. The weather gurus had also predicted it would be the last rain-free evening for a few days so I wanted to take advantage of it.

I’m so glad I did as a beautiful thing happened. I saw the most incredible sight – the moon rising larger than life over the ocean. This visual experience was an instant mood-changer. I went from hurried and harried to calm and awestruck. I took a picture with my iphone in hopes to share the impact. It’s not the same as being there, but I hope it gives you a lift.

I’m quitting my general contractor job next week

General ContractorI told my husband Rob last night that by next week I’m quitting my general contractor job.  It’s been fun, but I’m over it now.

I always find that the summer is a good time to get projects done personally and professionally.  Things tend to take on a different pace and space becomes available to tackle (if you can stay disciplined) those tasks that will streamline your life come the fall.

On the personal front, this summer I’ve updated my bedroom and my son Adam’s room, organized some closets, fine-tuned my garden and landscaping and had a myriad of contractor’s around painting, etc. I’ve gone to the dentist, the doctor and the optometrist.

It feels good to get these things done.  I’m more organized, my house is more organized.  This means I’m more effective…a key ingredient of work-life balance…better named work-life effectiveness.

On the professional front, my office is realigned, my travel schedule is being booked and my travel case (I have separate set of bags with toiletries, etc. pre-packed, re-filled to be ready to go at a moment’s notice) my hardware and software is current and my new website is up and running with podcasts and teleconferences either launched or launching.

Of course, all this takes a little effort upfront to get organized (doesn’t everything?), but the rewards and relief are worth it.

But as the fall season fast approaches, I’m satisfied with my progress and ready to enjoy the benefits of my labor and resign my role as general contractor.  Of course, I know I’ll never be DONE.  But I’m not aiming for perfection; only success.

What summer projects have you got done that are making a difference to your sanity and productivity?

Are you ready for outrageous outcomes?

For high-potential talent being busy is a fact of life, but there is a huge difference between “good busy” and “bad busy.”   Good busy energies you.  Bad busy drains you.

Good busy is associated with a sense of pride and satisfaction for accomplishing important goals and experiencing joyful moments.

Bad busy can be defined by frustration stemming from unfinished tasks, overload and diminished performance on many levels.  Too much leads to disengagement and burnout.

I’ve been writing about and teaching work-life effectiveness for the past decade.  And it has become clear to me that success in balancing all aspects of your life comes down to a holistic perspective on how to best manage your energy and priorities for maximum results and satisfaction.

Consider this equation:  Energy Management + Time Mastery = Outrageous Outcomes.

Energy Management:  know what gives you energy and what steals it.  Remember even if you are good at something it may not energize you.

Time Mastery:  Time is not a resource issue; it is a priority issue.  We all have 24 hours/day to spend. If someone tells me they do not have enough “time” to do a particular task; it very likely is not a priority.

To determine if you are operating in the outrageous outcomes zone, follow the steps below.

Step 1: List the tasks on your personal and professional “to-do” list. Step 2:  Group those tasks into a low, medium or high priority. Step 3: Identify which of those tasks energize you and those that do not. Step 4:  Now plot the tasks on the double-axis grid below.

energy chart If you have a task or an activity that energizes you and is a high priority – go attack it with gusto.  Not only will you be doing something you love, you’ll gain even more energy because a high priority item is complete.  For items that are a low priority but bring you energy, save those for a time when you need an energy boost.

If you are facing a task that depletes your energy but is a high priority, consider delegating the task to someone else. But make sure it gets done.  Otherwise any energy gain from the act of delegation is sure to be lost if a deadline is missed.   And finally, if an activity is a low priority and drains your energy – don’t do it.  Yes, I said: “Don’t Do it.”   Think of the energy you’ll gain but letting go of what does not matter.

Once the grid is complete, this will give you a very clear picture as to how effectively you are mastering your energy and time.  If most of your tasks fall in the upper right quadrant, then you are dwelling primarily in the outrageous outcomes zone – dramatic results await.

6 tension-snuffing strategies

Whether dealing with a colleague that presses all your buttons, a frustrated client, or a difficult boss, interpersonal tension surfaces in even the most productive work environments.  Keep frustrating situations from escalating into conflict with these tips from Forbes.com. These techniques range from breathing exercises to emotion-diffusing communication skills. Check them out – and keep from boiling over.

 

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Making room for success

Often we are conditioned to do, have, be. Practice volleyball, win the trophy, be the athlete. Study for the test, get the degree, qualify for the job – and the life. This post on The Practice of Leadership suggests an alternate tack: focus on being. Instead of reacting to circumstances, leaders “make a conscious effort to learn from their experiences.” That means setting aside time to think. To reflect. To be.

 

Taking this time is especially important for women balancing work and family. The 10th Practice in my book Briefcase Moms provides a reflection-centred approach that has women be – then do – then have. By mentally blueprinting success that’s balanced, women achieve new levels of being, doing, and having.

 

Something to think about.

 

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More dads want work – and work-life balance

The economic crunch is driving men back to the office. According to a Career.com survey, men are less willing to assume the role of primary caretaker in today’s uncertain economic climate. But that doesn’t mean they’re shirking family responsibilities. Check out the article for 5 tips on striking the fatherhood-and-career balance.