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January 30, 2012 – Issue #42

ROI of Silence and Solitude

The soul is like a wild animal – tough, resilient, resourceful, savvy, self-sufficient. It knows how to survive in hard places. But it is also shy. Just like a wild animal, it seeks safety in the dense underbrush. If we want to see a wild animal, we know that the last thing we should do is go crashing through the woods yelling, for it to come out. But if we walk quietly in the woods, sit patiently by the base of the tree and fade into our surroundings, the wild animal we seek might put in an appearance. Parker Palmer, A Hidden Wholeness

The quickest way to build your capacity is to add silence and solitude to your list of daily practices. Taking time alone to reflect, think, plan and just be will do far more for you than keeping yourself busy and inundated with the noise and constant stimulations that compete for our attention. The benefits that you will receive will far outweigh your guilt for not being more productive or your discomfort with quiet. You will gain:

  • Access to your inner creativity
  • Clarity
  • Opportunities to tap into insights that go beyond typical thinking processes

This Week’s Action: Pick a time and location that feels comfortable and safe from distractions and disruptions and simply do nothing. Try it for five minutes and see what happens.

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© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2012. All rights reserved.

Career and Leadership Success

Last week I had the honor of participating in Peter Reek’s Smart & Savvy Associates fantastic event for those wishing to build their marketing careers.

The event was masterfully choreographed with words of wisdom from 12 seasoned professionals sharing career planning “hindsights” interspersed with a dance competition, the Price is Right and Deal or No Deal.  The truly magnificent part of the evening was that each speaker had only 5-minutes (think ‘petcha kucha’ style) to share their insights (and, yes, most kept to the clock).

I was last up of the 12 and shared my “Seven Steps to Career and Leadership Success.”

I shared not only my personal experience, but more importantly, I shared the collective wisdom and hindsights of the hundreds of individuals I’ve coached to career and leadership success over the past dozen years.

Here’s a brief summary of what I said.  I decided to create a mnemonic to make the steps easy to remember. A video of the event is coming soon.  But until then, this will have to suffice.

Set a vision and goals:  The most successful folks I know set a vision (1 or 5 years out) for what is possible for their leadership and life.  They take a holistic view and determine the destination they aim to reach.  Then they put that vision up on the shelf and trust in it and themselves. Next they take an action everyday (large or small) that moves them in the right direction.

Understand self-esteem CPR:  Self-confidence is knowing the you have the skills to do something well.  Self-esteem is knowing your worth even if you are doing nothing.  Lack of self-esteem can stunt your career; no matter how talented you are.  You know you have strong self-esteem when you stay on an even keel no matter how great the wins or losses.  When you have strong belief in your worth regardless of market conditions you can practice Self-Esteem CPR:  you make Choices that move you toward your vision; you make Positivity a priority (your attitude, people and environments that surround you); and, you take measured Risks because you feel good in your own skin.

Create value security:  Job and career security has gone the way of the Brontosaurus.  It is extinct.  Yesterday’s world was about being employed.  You put in the hours and they gave you a gold watch.  Today’s world is about being employable.  You are measured on the value you bring and the results you deliver.  The more value you create, the more you make your performance shine, the more career options become available to you.

Contribute to others:  Don’t give to get.  Give to give.  Endeavor to make a meaningful impact on others.  Further this philosophy in your networking, volunteerism and day-to-day interactions.

Exercise your superpower:  The workplace rewards mastery not mediocrity.  The marketplace rewards mastery not mediocrity.  The leaders I know who have success on their terms play to their strengths.  They do not shore up weakness; and, instead build within their power alley.  In other words, if you were a superhero what would your superpower be?

Synergize your career and life:  Do not sacrifice your life for your career. Avoid burnout.  In our crazy busy world there is no such thing as balance and forget trying to achieve it.  Strive for harmony between your roles and responsibilities. In doing so, you will stop worrying about whether you are doing the right things and focus on doing the right things the right way.

Seek success not perfection: Perfection is a career killer.  When you focus on everything being a 100% right you get stuck.  You hold on too tightly and do not delegate or let things go.  You try to control everything and everyone. You miss opportunities to grow and take risks.

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 01.23.12

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January 23, 2012 – Issue #41

Balance Thinking and Action You become more personally powerful when you balance your external action with internal reflection and contemplation. Action without thought and replenishment (which is far, far more common in corporate life and western culture) leads to:

  • Frenzied activity
  • Controlling efforts to impose your own will
  • Pay later decisions (ones that require a great deal of rework, hidden costs, etc.)
  • And ultimately…
    • Frantic exhaustion
    • Burnout
    • Sense that our souls are fragmented

When you take a more balanced approach, you achieve greater capacity that enables:

  • Your best decisions
  • Growth
  • Resilience to handle challenges and setbacks

This Week’s Action: Assess how well you balance your actions with reflection.

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© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2012. All rights reserved.

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 01.09.12

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January 9, 2012 – Issue #39

Are You Successful? If you believe that achieving success means more than how much money you make, you need to expand the indicators you use to track, measure and evaluate it. Consider adding:

  1. Purpose – to what degree am I living in alignment with my values, talents and passion?
  2. Presence – to what degree am I able to be fully alive and connected to whatever I am doing, whoever I am with?
  3. Peace – to what degree do I have a sense of inner contentment?
  4. Personal power – to what degree is my sense of self derived internally (vs. externally)?

This Week’s Action: Add these measures to your 2012 Success and Significance Plan and see how much value you want to (and do) gain and give this year.

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© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2012. All rights reserved.

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 11.21.11

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November 21, 2011 – Issue #33

Five Indicators of Workplaces That Will Help You Shine You know that to do your best work, you have to be in a position to grow and be challenged. Therefore, choose a company that shares that same value at an organizational level.

Look for the following indicators of a company that “gets” what it takes to create the conditions for you to shine at your brightest:

  • Do they have an ever-increasing percentage of top talent working there?
  • Do they provide top talent the autonomy and freedom to get the job done?
  • Is exceptional performance rewarded equitably?
  • Do they keep their top talent in the know about performance critical issues?
  • Do they have a passion for quality and continuous improvement?

If your work environment passes these five criteria, you can ensure your career brand equity will increase as you are in a position to add dramatic value and be recognized for doing just that.

Survey Says Contribute to the conversation.

What is the best way that your exceptional performance can be supported and enhanced? Compensation for results (vs. compensation based on hours/time worked); autonomy and resources to get the job done; public acknowledgement for contribution; promotional opportunities; growth opportunities to challenge yourself and enrich the job.

Shine Peer Coaching Program launches January 2012. Learn more here. Space is limited so contact Lisa Martin to find out how you can apply.

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© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2011. All rights reserved.

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 11.14.11

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November 14, 2011 – Issue #32

The 3 W’s of Brand You If you want to be the CEO of Me, Inc., you need to start thinking about your career brand. The process for branding yourself and your career is not all that different than what major brands like Disney, Coke and Nike do.

To brand yourself, you need to know the following 3 W’s: • What you do and the value you create • Ways you stand out from others in your field • Who you are (your strengths and talents) and how you express yourself in a way that is congruous with your personal style

A career brand is a promise of the value that you will consistently deliver to your employer or client. Stop thinking of yourself as an “employee” or a job title or job description. Starting today, you are your own brand.

Reminder: Shine Peer Coaching Program launches January 2012. Learn more here. Space is limited so contact Lisa Martin to find out how you can apply.

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© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2011. All rights reserved.

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 11.07.11

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November 7, 2011 – Issue #31

How to Get Ahead Last week we asked what can you do to create demand for yourself. The majority of you said you would find new applications for your strengths, which, in essence, is a career advancement strategy.

If you want to move your career forward, there are a variety of strategies you can employ:

• Seek additional training • Gain access to power • Be shameless in your self-promotion • Do career planning • Get a mentor/sponsor • Look for opportunities both within and outside your company

Most importantly, to create opportunities for yourself to get ahead in your career, you have to marry your performance excellence with making your achievements known.

To facilitate and support your career advancement, we are launching the Shine Group Coaching Program™ for rising stars who want to achieve career success on their terms. Through professional guidance and virtual peer coaching, you will clarify and accelerate your personal and career aspirations.

Click here for more information and the early registration bonus for members of our Rise and Shine community.

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© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2011. All rights reserved.

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 10.03.11

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October 3, 2011 – Issue #27

The Value of a Rising Star Career The truth is in today’s world there is no such thing as job or career security.

You can see this as a threat…or as an opportunity.

Even though the current environment may cause you to perceive you have less career control…paradoxically you actually have more control than ever before because success in today’s workplace is measured by the value you bring and the results you deliver.

A rising star career is a work progression built upon your strengths and talents, and fueled by your vision and passion. When you have a rising star career you maximize your return on effort because you are leveraging all the ways you are naturally wired to add value.

If you have a rising star career you are progressively adding more and more value, so your performance shines and you stand out above the crowd. This gives you many career options and what we call “value” security.

Survey Says Contribute to the conversation.

What is the biggest benefit of having a Rising Star Career? Financial rewards; positive repute; career options; make a difference; maximized time and career/life balance.

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© Betsy Jordyn and Lisa Martin 2011. All rights reserved.

Monday Morning Rise and Shine 09.12.11

RisingStar2 September 12, 2011 – Issue #24

Unmeasured Strength – The Consummate Portrait of Resilience Ten years ago the United States fell victim to a horrific terrorist attack. Almost 3,000 innocent people lost their lives. Today, we want to invite you take a moment to remember those who died…and those who lived…and those who risk their well-being to ensure ours.

The resilience and strength of 9-11 survivors demonstrate unequivocally that the terrorist objective of demoralizing a country was not accomplished. In fact, the opposite has taken place.

Consider the re-birth of lower Manhattan, which has been transformed into residential haven complete with elementary schools, outdoor cafes and accessible retail and services.

Consider the words of 9-11 survivor, Lauren Manning, found in her biography, “Unmeasured Strength.” Ten years ago she was not expected to live as a result of the extensive burns over 80% of her body. Twenty-five surgeries later, she is a victor over tyranny and has exacted the best revenge against unjust suffering – living well.

“Here is the simple version of what happened: I went to work one morning and was engulfed by the fires that would bring down the twin towers of the World Trade Center. I fled the building in flames, so terribly injured that almost no one held out any hope for me. Yet in the weeks and months that followed, I battled back from the edge of death to hold my child in my arms and intertwine my husband’s fingers with what was left of my own. In almost every way, this is the story of a miracle.

I will never know how many others were gravely wounded along with me during the attacks’ first moments. The places where my fellow victims stood, more than a thousand feet in the air, have disappeared forever. When the buildings collapsed, they took with them thousands of lives, among them too many of my friends and colleagues. By the smallest of margins, I was given a chance to survive, and I decided, early that morning, that I would never give up the fight to live. I would never surrender.”

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Monday Morning Rise and Shine 06.13.11

RisingStar2 June 13, 2011 – Issue #11

Accountability Takes Courage To gain the courage to have boundaries and hold others accountable when they violate them, you have to redirect your focus onto them and what they NEED versus what they may say they want. You need to let go of your own fears of not being liked, dislike for conflict, fears of rejection so that you can take the initiative to move towards others…to offer a mirror that facilitates the opportunity to make meaningful and positive changes.

Survey Says Contribute to the conversation.

Last week we asked – What is the greatest barrier that inhibits leaders from holding others accountable: lack of understanding on how to establish and communicate clear performance objectives; lack of time; lack of ability to coach individuals to solve their performance challenges; lack of appropriate rewards and/or consequences; discomfort with providing difficult feedback or confrontation.

The top two responses were lack of understanding on how to establish and communicate performance objectives, and discomfort with providing difficult feedback or confrontation.

To learn the 7 steps to becoming more accountable click here.

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