Who are you? What do you want?
Two questions that on the surface appear simple but in actuality exceptionally profound.
To be the person you long to be and reach the goals that you aspire to achieve is not something that just happens or is a result of luck.
To get what you want most you need two things:
1. Vision: see the future you want to create
2. Absolute commitment: doing what it takes to get there
The following are five tips to help you grasp a vision for a better future and gain the internal resilience to do what it takes to make that vision a reality:
· Establish and maintain connections. Good relationships and a solid community not only helps you identify and uncover what you are meant to be and do but also provides the emotional support required for the journey.
· Reframe your understanding of crisis and challenge. Stress happens. Jobs get lost. Companies go under. Families fall apart. The only thing that is within your control is how you respond and use your challenges to grow and create deepened internal strength.
· Make movement towards your goals. Break your vision into actionable components and then just take action. Instead of focusing on tasks that seem unachievable, ask yourself, “What’s one thing I know I can accomplish today that helps me move in the direction I want to go?”
· Strive for success…not perfection. If you wait for all the stars to align and guaranteed results for every action you take, then your chances for overall success dramatically diminish. Take a risk, make a move…because even if you fail, it is one piece of knowledge that you didn’t possess before that might prove to be invaluable to you in the future.
· Foster your self-esteem. The number one thing that separates realized potential and wishful thinking is self-esteem. Your sense of self-worth and value is the foundation which enables you to take risks and properly internalize the lessons of failure. It is this foundation that enables you to keep your wins and losses in perspective and keep going towards your dreams. Your positive sense of worth will make it easier for you to take care of your own needs and feelings and ensure that the activities that you find enjoyable and relaxing are a part of your daily life. Self-care is essential if you want to avoid burnout and go the distance to fulfill your aspirations.
Take some time now to think about your answers to the questions: who am I and what do I want? And then honestly assess how well you are exercising the above five actions and decide what you need start, continue and stop doing to get want you want.
