The Harmony Index I take good care of myself and am able to put myself first. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True My partner and I are effectively sharing our family responsibilities (child care, elder care). Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I know my stressors and have a plan to eliminate them. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I don’t let my “shoulds” influence what I do and how I spend my time. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I don’t feel guilty balancing career and family. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I don’t feel an internal pressure to be in charge (in control) of everything. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I find joy in every day. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I am committed to my own health and wellness. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I offer myself the same respect and kindness I give to others I care deeply for. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I pay attention to and use my intuition to make decisions that are in my best interest. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I can easily state my unique skills, talents and attributes. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I know all the reasons why I work. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I can articulate my four core personal values. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True My partner and I equitably share domestic chores. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True The way I spend my time is in alignment with my priorities. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I can identify my defeating beliefs and convert them to power beliefs. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I have a disaster-proof child care net. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I let myself play and have fun before I do my chores. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I believe I am worth it. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True My boundaries are clear and I gracefully communicate them. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I easily say no to things that are not my priorities. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I can transform my complaints into my balance vision. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I have a strong network of friends. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True My support partner, inner circle and/or smart connections support me to reach my goals. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I know my fears and have a plan to face them. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I have a passionate relationship with my partner. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I am fully engaged in all areas of my life (work, self, family, volunteerism, etc.). Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True My life theme is guiding my intentions and actions. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I believe in abundance and practice gratitude. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True I know what ‘having it all’ means to me. Less True – 1 2 3 4 5 – More True Your Name: Your Email: Tweet